Dating advice

How to approach a girl you like

When it comes to dating, approach a girl you like might be the hardest part.

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I know for a lot of men, seeing a beautiful girl walks by is the most nervous time they might experience. We feel like we should go to say ‘Hi’. But then our fear comes into play. It tells us ridiculous things like “Stop! You will embarrass yourself if you go talk to her” or “You have to try to be cool! Let her walk by! Then she will notice you”. I felt it too. And trust me, there’s nothing cool to let the girl you like walk away. So I will tell you some tips, that can calm your nerve and push you just go talk to her.

Don’t think too much! Just do it

“Thinking too much leads to paralysis by analysis. It’s important to think things through, but many use thinking as a means of avoiding action.”
— Robert Herjavek

We often think too much about what happens next. “If I say ‘Hi’, what she might say next. What if she slaps me in the face and people around will look at me like I’m a jerk. What if she calls the police, will I be in jail for the rest of my life.”