Love is a number game

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It might sound harsh but it is true, in my opinion.

  1. Why it’s a number game?
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Number game

Because as other things in life, in order to be good at something, you have to practice… a lot.

Take it as, if you want to be good at programming, you had to practice coding, algorithms and all kinds of things related to computer, technology, tools.

Or if you want to be good at gym, you need to go to the gym and put in the work at least 2–3 times a week for 3 months in consecutive.

Everything needs practicing. Love is not an exception.

2. If you want to be good with women, you need to know a lot of women.

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Different characteristics, background, environments..

When you know many women, you have options. And options are powerful

A common thing happens to a guy that he only can see one girl. I mean, you go around and when you see a girl you like, you think this is a girl I want. And you put all your focus into that one girl.

This is dangerous because when you put all of you into one girl. She will notice this. And she’ll try to run away. Why? Because it’s really stressful.

3. A man only is attracted by woman when he has other things in life, not just the love for the woman.

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It’s natural because a girl needs someone that she can count on. Someone should be strong, deterministic, someone who can handle things.

And when you just show all your focus into her. Not letting her see that you have other things to do. Other things you’re good at ( that could be sports, business, culture, books ..)

4.When you’re available, you should date as many women as possible?

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Because when you only date 1 girl. What if this failed? You will have no options left.

That’s not good because if you only have 1 option, you will become needy.

And the girl will not like the needy guy.

When you’re seeing some women, you have more than 1 options. You’re more confident when seeing them, when you talk to them. Because if this does not work, some other cases might work.

I just want to make sure that I agree that you’re cheating with women. That’s totally wrong. I mean that when you are not in a relationship, you can freely seeing anyone that you want.

That’s gonna be it for this post. Stay tunes for more.

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