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I know it’s hard to not give a f for what other people think. We were raised by thinking we need to do this, we need to do that, in order to achieve something. And most of the time, we need to satisfy what our parents want, what our friends want, what the manager at work wants. But trust me, if you strive and work for satisfying other people, you will never feel peaceful. And as I grow older, the peace in our mind is arguably the most important thing we should have in order to live happily. I try not to please other people all the time (Well I still cannot give a f for all people all the time, it needs practice though). And since I try to not give a damn about what people think of me, I live happier and achieve more things. Here I will list some reasons why we should not care about what other people think.
You can’t please everyone
That’s it. Everyone has different opinions about things. What this person like might be the thing that other person hate. If you can please everyone then you please no one. It’s like you are in a business, and you try to sell your products to every kind of customers. No…
